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職場(chǎng)上如何做個(gè)好聽(tīng)眾？
你是否經(jīng)歷過(guò)在采訪過(guò)程中或是交談過(guò)程中，你想要跟他說(shuō)話的那個(gè)人卻起身離開(kāi)呢？或是做在椅子上搖搖晃晃？或是左顧右盼？你是什么感覺(jué)？大部分人感覺(jué)很受傷害。聽(tīng)眾的行為表現(xiàn)出他或她對(duì)說(shuō)話者所談的內(nèi)容一點(diǎn)興趣都沒(méi)有。然而，當(dāng)輪到他們發(fā)言的時(shí)候，他們卻希望大家能夠集中精力�！ ∧闶欠窠�(jīng)歷過(guò)在一次激烈的交談中你意識(shí)到你的搭檔對(duì)你的談話沒(méi)有任何意識(shí)？可能是因?yàn)槟惚磉_(dá)觀點(diǎn)或是發(fā)表演講的方式不對(duì)或是對(duì)方本來(lái)就不想聽(tīng)。大多數(shù)應(yīng)屆畢業(yè)生似乎更不善傾聽(tīng)。 因此，該如何學(xué)習(xí)傾聽(tīng)呢？接下來(lái)是一些提示，對(duì)任何情況下的傾聽(tīng)者都有幫助�！ �1.學(xué)著用眼神進(jìn)行交流：讓說(shuō)話者知道你對(duì)他說(shuō)的非常感興趣； 2.不要急著說(shuō)話：有時(shí)候，人們想大聲發(fā)表高見(jiàn)；有時(shí)候，他們所需要的只是一個(gè)可以依靠的肩膀和一對(duì)善于傾聽(tīng)的耳朵。不要急著說(shuō)話，讓別人把話說(shuō)完或是將事情解決好； 3.堅(jiān)守秘密： 人們信任你和你的信息是因?yàn)樗麄兿嘈拍悴皇且粋�(gè)愛(ài)講閑話到處散播流言蜚語(yǔ)的人。保留這份信任，讓秘密堅(jiān)守在你們兩人之間； 4.要專心 學(xué)著積極傾聽(tīng)，讓對(duì)方知道即使你沒(méi)有說(shuō)一句話也表明你確實(shí)是在聽(tīng)，你也不時(shí)發(fā)出一些“是的，恩，我知道，這是真的，好的，很有意思”之類的聲音。這些都顯示出你和他們?cè)谕粋�(gè)調(diào)上而且在跟隨他們的談話； 5.表示感激 讓對(duì)方感到敞開(kāi)心懷同你說(shuō)話是萬(wàn)分榮幸的。假如沒(méi)有什么私話可說(shuō)的話，要讓對(duì)方知道你是花時(shí)間在聽(tīng)并從中獲益匪淺。在一個(gè)忘記表達(dá)感激的社會(huì)，一句簡(jiǎn)單的善意的話語(yǔ)就會(huì)讓別人感到很高興。表現(xiàn)出善意和欣賞也會(huì)對(duì)你的采訪大有幫助。； 6.同一個(gè)語(yǔ)調(diào) 不要因?yàn)樽约盒牟辉谘啥粫缘米约旱降渍f(shuō)到哪了。無(wú)論你確實(shí)要起身離開(kāi)或是開(kāi)小差，無(wú)論 已經(jīng)起身離開(kāi)或已經(jīng)在開(kāi)小差，都是不文明的表現(xiàn)。假如你發(fā)現(xiàn)你集中注意力的時(shí)間很短，不妨主動(dòng)重復(fù)對(duì)方剛剛說(shuō)的話以保持注意力�！ earn how to be a good listener. Have you ever been in a middle of an interview or even in a conversation when the person you are talking to just gets up and walks away? Or fiddles in the chair? Or looks everywhere but at you? How does this make you feel? Most people feel hurt. The listener acts as though he or she has absolutely no interest in what the speaker has to say. And yet, when it is their turn to talk, they expect, if not demand, attention. Have you ever been in a heated conversation and realize that your partner has no idea what you have been saying? It could very well be the manner that you are delivering the speech, or it may be that your partner is a poor listener. Poor listening skills seem to be the majority and not the minority. Our country is so used to fast paced this and that, that we often forget how to slow down and just listen. So how can we learn to be good listeners? How are some common ideas that seem to work wonders in any relationship: 1. Learn to listen using eye contact: Let the speaker know that you are interested in what is being said. 2. Be slow to speak: Sometimes, people speak to think out loud. Sometimes, all they really want is a shoulder to lean on and a willing ear to listen. By being slow to speak, you are allowing the speaker to work out or solve problems themselves. 3. Keep the secret: People trust you with information because they believe that you will not gossip and spread slander. Keep their trust by keeping things private; between the two of you. 4. Be Attentive: Learn to actively listen. Let the speaker know that you are actually listening, although you are not speaking, by saying things like, "yeah, hmmm, I know, thats true, okay, that makes sense," and so forth. 5. Show Gratitude: Let the speaker know that you feel honored that they were able to open up to you. If nothing personal was said, than let the speaker know that you had a great time listening and that you learned a lot. In a society that forgets to show gratitude, a simple use of kind words, can make someones day a little brighter. 6. Stay in Tune: Dont disappear in the middle of the conversation because your mind wandered. Whether you actually get up and walk away or let your mind wander elsewhere, its just plain rude. If you find that your attention span is small, actively repeat what is being said to you as the speaker is speaking.【職場(chǎng)上如何做個(gè)好聽(tīng)眾？】相關(guān)文章：
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